For love ❤️ With Love

we probably need to talk about failure and our mistakes a lot more often that we do. not in attempt to look for pity or help, but just so we all realize that everyone, really everyone is going through something.  now days that social media and marketing companies want us to thinking that everybody else's life is perfect but our own, it is a good reminder to realize that other people and their life is not as perfect as it looks. we all are going through something. we all make mistakes. we all fail more often that we like to admit. we forget things. we suck at times. we loose our patience. we are hurtful. we lie or make up stuff to look better.  and you know what? that it is ok . there is nothing wrong with us. We are all doing our best, even when our actions don’t reflect that. Most of our actions grow out from our past pain. They are a reflection of what we have healed and what we have yet to. So we can take responsibility, apologize and continue.  Knowing that.. take a deep breat

 I used to live by strongly by goals and to-do list. I love them! I was that person that added things to the to-do list after I finished something just to cross it out. It felt good. I felt accomplished. I felt valuable. I felt that I needed to constantly be doing something and that was the trap. I had defined part the worth of my existence measured by productivity. Not only was the measurement tool damaging to myself worth, it had no end. I know I wasn’t the only one. Everyday we are bombarded with productivity tools and demands. We are supposed to be doing something, otherwise we become invisible.  It seems as if we are racing again each other to be the busiest and that is absurd.  There is no merit in losing the present moment by filing our time with meaningless task. We might be busy but lack presence.  While I still have a list of goals and activities to give myself direction, the attainment of it does not define my experience.